Whether you’re a person or a brand, people know when you’re not being true. They might not call you out on it, but the odds of you making a genuine connection with them is also remote.
Pretense works when there isn’t much at stake. But when things get serious, you’ll be found out.
Reach out to someone only when you need them and they’ll remember you as an opportunist.
In the long run, empathy and honesty score over pretense. While you might see people making short-term gains by using pretense, they get found out in the long run.
Choose better. Play the long game. It will come to your aid when you really need it.
My parents have gone for a trip to Tirunelveli, a town famous for its temples.
When they called on the last day of their trip, they sounded tired but excited, telling us about all the places they visited.
My mother then started speaking about the places they want to visit…
There is no selling without trust
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A very quick Yoga primer:
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A few months back, when the IPL was going on, I was seeing a show where panelists were discussing what made the Chennai Super Kings (CSK) such a special team.
Of all the teams in the IPL…
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At their peak, The Who used to wreak havoc whenever they toured. Keith Moon, their iconic and troubled drummer, had a penchant for destruction, leaving the band’s management with huge bill to pay. He regularly blew up toilets with dynamite, lit…